How is Child Custody Decided After Divorce in the UAE?

What Does Custody Mean in UAE Divorce Cases?

In simple terms, custody usually refers to the day-to-day care of the child. This includes where the child lives, who manages the child’s daily routine, schooling arrangements, food, medical appointments, and general upbringing.

Guardianship is a different but similar idea. It usually carries more legal weight on important issues like financial matters, approval of education, permission to travel, and official documentation. In many family disputes in the UAE, one parent may have custody, but the other parent may still have guardianship rights or responsibilities.

This distinction is important because a parent who does not have daily custody may still have strong legal rights in relation to the child.

The Best Interests of the Child Come First

The UAE courts focus on the child’s best interests when deciding custody disputes. This means the court will look at the practical reality of the child’s life, not only the claims made by each parent.

The court may take into account factors such as:

1. Age and needs of the child

2. The emotional relationship between the child and each parent

3. The ability of each parent to provide care, supervision, and stability

4. The school and social environment of the child

5. The safety and moral environment of the home

6. Any risk of neglect, harm, or instability

7. The willingness of each parent to support the child’s relationship with the other parent

The court’s objective is to prevent unnecessary disruption in the child’s life. The parent seeking custody should be prepared to demonstrate how the proposed plan will enhance the child’s daily routine, education, health, and emotional well-being.

Child custody cases are sensitive, and the outcomes have implications for the child’s day-to-day living, education, travel, and relationship with each parent. A lawyer can assist in preparing the case, explain the applicable law, file urgent applications where necessary, and clearly put forward the best interests of the child to the court.

In sensitive family matters, the presence of an experienced advocate can allow parents to understand the legal process. Mrs. Awatif Al Khouri, a Senior Emirati Advocate with rights of audience before all UAE Courts, is well known for dealing with family disputes in a practical and careful way, especially where custody, visitation, and child travel concerns require court intervention.

Who Usually Gets Custody After Divorce?

In the 2024 Personal Status Law, after separation, custody is usually awarded to the mother, then the father, then other relatives in the order stated by law. But the court can vary this order if the best interests of the child require a different arrangement.

The civil personal status system could provide that both parents shall have equal and shared custody of the child after divorce, unless the court determines otherwise in the best interests of the child, pursuant to Federal Decree-Law No. 41 of 2022.

Can a Child Choose Which Parent to Live With?

One of the important updates under the 2024 Personal Status Law is that a child who reaches the age of 15 may choose to reside with either parent, unless the child’s best interests require otherwise.

That does not mean that the court will ignore all other factors. The child must be able to pick, but it has to be acceptable and safe, too. Before entering a final judgment, the court may consider the effect of the placement on the child’s general well-being.

Custody generally ends when the child reaches 18 Gregorian years. However, if the child has a serious illness or condition requiring continued care, custody may continue where necessary.

Visitation and Contact Rights

When one parent has custody, the other parent usually has the right to visit, spend time with the child, take the child out, and, in suitable cases, have overnight stays. The parents may agree on the schedule themselves. If they cannot agree, the court can decide the arrangement based on the child’s best interests.

A visitation order may cover Weekly or weekend contact, School holiday arrangements, Video calls or phone contact, or Overnight stays. Courts generally encourage arrangements that allow the child to maintain a meaningful relationship with both parents, unless there is a serious reason to restrict contact.

What Happens if One Parent Is Unfit?

A parent’s custody rights may be challenged if there is evidence that the parent cannot properly care for the child. This may include neglect, abuse, unsafe living conditions, inability to supervise the child, serious instability, or conduct that affects the child’s welfare.

The law also allows custody rights to be lost where the custodian no longer satisfies the required conditions, fails to perform custody duties, or moves in a way that harms the child’s interests. However, a person who loses custody may apply again if the reason for losing custody no longer exists.

The court will usually require proper evidence. Allegations alone are not enough. Messages, school records, medical reports, police reports, witness statements, travel records, or other supporting documents may be relevant, depending on the dispute.

Conclusion

In the UAE, the question of child custody post-divorce is based on the best interest of the child. The law does provide some guidance as to who might have priority, but the court has the discretion to look at the whole picture and make orders that ensure stability, safety, and well-being for the child.

For expats and UAE nationals, custody disputes often raise a number of related issues at the same time, including residence, schooling, visitation, passports, travel permission, and financial support. Parents need to be calm about the process, record-keeping, and focus on what arrangement is truly in the best interests of the child.

With the support of experienced UAE family law professionals such as Mrs. Awatif Al Khouri, parents can have a better grasp of their rights and responsibilities and ensure the child’s welfare is kept as the priority.